"You look very nice today", 5 words enough to screw up communication ! surprising ...no?
How? you must be wondering... simple...here is the recipe :
Take wishful thinking combined with a bloated sense of self confidence ,freshly inflated by your 5 words and thoroughly mixed and well shaken with a pinch of crushed ego to combine into the perfect "ice queen" cocktail...
While all you really intended to say was "you look very nice today" that fateful moment where you uttered these simple yet honest words of compliment becomes the key turning point after which the girl you said these words to starts to give you a whole new set of behavior which I assume is solely related to her thinking that your words meant something more...
Well, here is a newsflash for you...NO I am not saying those words because I am fishing for something further..I am saying them because I felt like it... Surprising isn't it?
Don't you just hate that sort of situation? You know what else I hate...people who confuse kindness for stupidity..who mistake goodness for weakness...who think just because you let them see one side of you they think they know you by heart.
My opinion...
If you cannot tell the truth...don't replace it with attitude ...
And if you cannot handle the truth don't ask for it...
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